Bode came back from Lagos on saturday.He passedtwonights in our house.He was so surprised at how he was warmly received bymyparents n siblings.He really didnt give me d details,but i knew he gavePastord full gist.With time,my dad became a loving dad to Bode.They were always talking of each other.Bode’s 21st birthday met him in Lagos,n according tohim,my family marked it for him in a little way,which hereallyappreciated.He proposed to me,but i turned it down immediately.Notbcs i didnt have feelings for him,but bcos of d agedifference.When i told mummy about it, her reply surprised me.”Gonpray about it my dear. Whatever God asks u to do,doit..butabout d issue of age difference,it has no meaning.”“But….Ma,even if God comes down to tell me to marryhim,i dont think i can.How can i marry someone i’m4yrsolder than?.He’s just 21 n i’m 25.”She laughed n said “Is there anywhere it is written in dbible dt husband must be older than his wife?.D bibleonlysays dt wives should be submissive to dir ownhusbands,n asa result of dt, we have programmed it in our minds dt donly person we could be submissive to, must besomeoneolder than us.For ur information,i’m3yrs older than myhusband.If i didnt tell u now,how would u know?.Go npraymy dear,n let God’s will be done”.I prayed n didnt have any restriction in my spirit.I told my Pastor about it n they prayed for us.My parents also agreed with d union n we got marriedatIkeja Registry in december, after which we went formarriage blessings at my parents’ church.I had a bouncing baby boy on d 17th of January,namedOluwadarasimi (Meaning God is good to me).I decidedtostay with d Williams until i had d baby.When Bode graduated from school,my dad connectedhimwith one of his friends who employed him in hiscompany.With time,he became d manager of d company,n we’vebeendoing fine since.We celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary lastdecember,n up till now,i’m still trusting God for anotherbaby.Sometimes in my thought,i would imagine what wouldhavehappened if i had aborted Darasimi’s pregnancy.I would have thought i couldn’t have another child due todabortion.I would never recover from d guilt.Also,i would have remained barren up till now,nothavingany child at all.I would have been a hinderance to Bode’s destiny.Lastly,i would have attracted d wrath of God uponmyselfin a big way.Looking at Darasimi,who is Bode’s carbon copy,he hasd giftof singing n playing instruments.He had beencomposing hisown songs since age 5,dir’s no sentence he cant bringout asong from,just say it,n he would turn it to a song. Andbynow,he’s becoming a Guru in playing keyboard.I have no doubt God will still bless me with morechildren, Hehad assured me of dt,n i know He would never fail.My brethren,pls let us learn from ds story.It doesntmatterhow tough what u are going tru is,one day,an end shallcome to it.Even,if u have missed it in life, dir’s still Somebody ucanturn to,He Is The Way,The Truth and The Life. He willsurely show u d way out if u allow Him to lead u.Nevercoverur sin with another sin. If u do,u are only sitting on atimebomb,it will explode sooner than expected.Remain blessed.THE END.vist www.horphdomah.blogspot.com for more updates. Thanks
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